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Five,Four,Three,Two,One! My New Year's resolution will be to loose 100 pounds,stop smoking,stop drinking,get into shape,eat healthy. "Two weeks later," OH,I give up". In life its easy to say things or set high goals but as time passes things get difficult and giving in to temptations seems to be the only way out. A Christian life,like new year resolutions,feels simple. It is all black and white while at the altar where "we know how to live and what direction to take",but after church,"somewhere between the "Altar and the Door" everything turns gray again. At the Altar Jesus expects us to leave everything that weighs on our shoulders to Him and not to leave with any when we walk out of the door. At the Altar we are full of confidence, we know who we are,what we are supposed to do,which road in life to take and how we are supposed to live. But the frustration comes however when we leave the Altar and have to take the things we left there with

​Do i love myself? I do. Not everything(smiles)but I love the good and the bad. I love my crazy but gentle lifestyle and I love my hard discipline. I love my freedom of speech and the way my eyes get dark when i'm tired. I love that I have learned to trust people with my heart,even if it will get broken. I am proud of everything I am and will become.  I write about the Power of being broken cos I want to be okay even when I get broken. I know what it is to be broken and be in need of redemption. Life has a way of knocking you off your feet,people misunderstand and judge you without blinking an eyelid leaving you shattered and broken. The world breaks everyone,and afterward,some are strong at the broken places while some remains shattered for life. Jesus remains the best solution when you are broken. Happy is the man who has broken the chains which hurt the mind,and has given up worrying. I have learnt that Stumbling is never falling. So When you get broken don't forget that

When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free. We read that we ought to forgive our enemies; but we do not read that we ought to forgive our friends. Remember, To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness. The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.    HOW STRONG ARE YOU?

Anyone who serves God will discover sooner or later that the great hindrance to his work is not others but himself. He will discover that his outward man and his inward man are not in harmony, for both are tending toward opposite directions. He will also sense the inability of his outward man to submit to the Spirit's control, thus rendering him incapable of obeying God's highest commands. He will quickly detect that the greatest difficulty lies in his outward man, for it hinders him from using his spirit. The Bible tells of the pure spikenard. God purposely used this term "pure" in His Word to show that it is truly spiritual. But if the alabaster box is not broken, the pure spikenard will not flow forth. Strange to say, many are still treasuring the alabaster box, thinking that its value exceeds that of the ointment. Many think that their outward man is more precious than their inward man. This becomes the problem in the church and in the home. Break your Alabast

One attribute of the Almighty God that children of God cannot afford to be ignorant of is that He is the creates Warrior. The children of Isreal experienced the mighty deeds of God and they spontaneously composed a song,you can see that in (Exodus 15:1-4) When children of God fail to recognise the fact that their Father in Heaven is a man of war,the tendency is that they cringe and bow to worship their enemies in fear. This in turn will bring the judgement of God upon their lives because God Says in Exodus 20:3 that we must have no other god before Him. This is why Jesus came to deliver those who,for the fear of death,have subjected themselves to everlasting bondage. I have seen the mighty deeds of God in my life and I have come to the conclusion that there is no God as Mighty as my Father in Heaven. I want you to know that the mighty deeds of God will become a daily occurrence in your life if you can identify with the covenant which Jesus made with His blood at Calvary.  He loves y

He called her on the road,just to hear her say “I Love You one more time”. She stumbled with words for him. He fought back the tears and wished he could reach out to her. Distance,cold nights, those feelings kept cripping in. They seem thousand miles apart but she could still hear his heartbeat. Saying I love you wasn’t the word she wanted to say. Am already there her heart cried out,          Take a look around but don’t make a sound. I’m the beat in your heart,I’m the whisper in the wind. Can’t you feel me? And she realised it was all a dream. Never loose a second to tell the ones you love how much you love them.

​Oftentimes, people like me try to prove they have it all together but end up overwhelmed because they wind up juggling too many balls, saying, “No, it’s okay, I got it.” I realized I stopped asking for help because I needed to maintain the illusion (primarily for myself) that I knew everything so I wouldn’t feel incompetent,NOT ANYMORE. Being vulnerable enough to admit you can’t do everything and need help actually brings people closer to you because it opens the door for the most basic of human needs—empathy, validation, and most importantly, the need to feel like you are not alone in your experiences. Be gentle and patient with yourself. Allow yourself some room for error and be humble enough to seek other perspectives to issues that arise. It can be extremely freeing to learn that you do not, in fact, have all the answers. It is a process to let go of the unrelenting demands created by past experiences and accomplishments. Life has a funny way of showing what you need to relinq

The cynic is one who never sees a good quality in a man, and never fails to see a bad one.  What are you?

​As a woman, you are many things to your husband and as a man, there are 8 things you should be to your wife. Don’t marry a man because of what he drives but what drives him Seduce your husband. Don’t always allow your husband to ask for sex. As a woman your under wear should match You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Be creative. Don’t be predictable. Give him what he wants. Everyone woman has an influence. If you lose influence over your husband you have lost womanhood You must learn to synchronize with your husband. Be part of his plans Don’t have too many children. Sex is not all about making children. Dress to please your husband Don’t fix time to have sex with your husband.When a man is sexually satisfied he is emotionally stable As a woman you should invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as a prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life. I agree with almost all but why must

​20 Things Every Young Woman in Her 20s Should Know 1. Love and honour your mother. Learn from her mistakes. It will save you a lot of headache in your thirties (30s) and beyond. 2. You are more talented than you’ll ever know. You don’t need to sleep with your Boss/ supervisor to get a promotion at work or better grades at school. Burn late night candles; put extra time to study and practice until you master your skill. Hard work still pays well and does not kill. 3. Women can build a strong support network. Don’t let few ladies with “Pull Her Down” {PHD} syndrome discourage you from cultivating true relationship with your female friends. 4. Walk away from deceit. When a man you meet for the first time babbles about how much he earns working for an oil company and how rich he is, that is a red flag. He is either a married smooth-talker who just wants to sleep with you or he is childish. 5. Make your own money. Start small. Maintain a stable bank account. It

The power of Love God has given us is so powerful that it can tear down walls and flatten any mountain. Most of all I have seen it change everything that was considered lost and broken. No man can love another of his own will or strength,you will only grow weary but you can love another perfectly when you love with the love of God. True love comes with lots of challenges and only the BRAVE triumphs.  Show some love today…God expects that of you.

​Christ’s life outwardly was one of the most troubled lives that was ever lived: tempest and tumult, tumult and tempest, the waves breaking over it all the time. But the inner life was a sea of glass. The great calm was always there.

​DON’T COMPLICATE LIFE Missing Somebody? – CALL Wanna Meet Up? – INVITE Wanna Be Understood? – EXPLAIN Have a Question? – ASK Don’t Like Something? – SAY IT Like Something? – STATE IT Want Something? – ASK FOR IT Love Someone? – TELL THEM KEEP YOUR LIFE VERY SIMPLE!!!

​”I don’t want to be embarrassed when I go to see something on the screen. I don’t want to listen to foul language, watch a lot of violence or see something immoral. I prefer stories with sensitivity and family values; films that strive to lift you up to a higher place in life.” ~